As we wait for prayers to be answered and the right one to come along, can we normalize being Happily Single??

You can be single and:

Happy

Feel whole

Successful

Travel the world

Start the business

Enjoy the fullness of life and your freedom

I took care of me when I was single. I dated myself and it’s something I still do although I’m married now. I just really enjoy my presence and alone time – it’s a form of self-care for me.

It’s important HOW you wait so let’s get into the specifics of how I embraced my season of singleness:

I went after God: I was completely in His presence and built a relationship with Him. It was also the only way I was able to finally leave a toxic relationship cycle.

I learned how to be alone: I cried a lot of nights and I was lonely, but it made me stronger.

I created my own happiness: I didn’t need a rebound or someone to make me happy, and I finally got to a point of realizing I didn’t need to use temporary things or people to fill a void. I could do this by myself and heal the right way.

I took the time to heal: I didn’t want to sabotage what God had for me if my husband was to find me.

I did the work internally – which positively affected my external.

So stop settling. Stop allowing the bare minimum. Stop falling into the arms of that same guy that won’t commit to you. Stop using temporary solutions to fill a void. Stop chasing. Stop asking. Stop begging. And stop comparing yourself.

You are enough and you are worthy of love.

You got this!!